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A quiet crisis we don't talk about enough At a recent school meeting, a therapist asked a group of parents to name a few apps their children use. Then a few games. Then some popular YouTubers. The room fell silent. One parent could name them all. The rest? Not a single hand. Some laughed nervously. Others looked down. It wasn't ignorance. It was distance. That moment stayed with me. Not because of the silence, but because of what it reveals. We've handed our children a digital world we barely understand. A world that shapes how they think, who they admire, what they believe is "normal". A world where they're growing up, often without us. Jakub's post, which sparked this reflection, was both honest and gentle. He didn't mock anyone. He simply described what he saw. And the comments that followed were full of the same quiet concern: parents who feel lost, or late, or unsure how to begin. Some admitted they only knew Facebook. Not a single game. Not a sin...
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Cybersecurity Begins With the Small Stuff We don’t lose our data in some epic battle. We lose it in the quiet moments, when we click too fast, trust too easily, or assume that something that looks right must be right . I watched a cybersecurity webinar recently, not technical, not dramatic, but full of uncomfortable truths. The kind that stay with you. It walked through everyday scenarios, showing how we’re tricked not because we’re careless, but because we’re human. I couldn’t help thinking about my own team, my friends, even my family. This isn’t just IT. It’s life now. So I wanted to pull together some of the lessons, not as a checklist, but as a reflection. These aren’t things to memorise. They’re things to sit with. They Hide Behind What We Already Trust The most effective attacks don’t start with hacking tools. They start with trust. The session opened with an example of fake charity websites, perfectly timed to match real fundraising events. Nothing about them looked sus...

How to Stay Safe Online

Strong Passwords and Two-Factor Authentication If you only do two things to protect yourself online, let them be this: Use strong, unique passwords Turn on two-factor authentication (2FA) These might sound simple, but they’re powerful — and for most people, they’re enough to stay safe in everyday life. What makes a strong password? A strong password is one that: Is long — at least 12–16 characters Is unique — used only in one place Looks random — not based on something someone could guess about you A lot of people use phrases like IAlwaysForgetMyBankLogin2024 . It sounds long and personal, but that’s also the problem — it’s guessable. If you use a similar phrase for other sites (like IAlwaysForgetMySocialLogin2024 ), it becomes a pattern. And patterns are easy to break. Instead, go for something that doesn’t relate to you at all: 🟢 Ocean-Ladder-Bottle-Swim!53 🟢 FuzzyLamp12$CactusRun 🟢 z!X4eR#tUnicorn-Skate You don’t need to remember them all. That’s ...

What the Minecraft Movie Teaches Us About Hype, Gaming, and Paying Attention

Last weekend, I took my boys to the cinema to see The Minecraft Movie . The place was packed—I've never seen so many children crammed into one screening. It felt a bit like a Ryanair flight. Every scene, no matter how small or oddly timed, was met with applause. Clapping for the sake of clapping. It was hard not to feel a little out of place. I’ve been playing Minecraft for over a decade. We even run our own family server at home. So this wasn’t a case of a confused parent trying to connect with their kids by tagging along to something they don’t understand. I introduced Minecraft to them. They play because I played. But the film? It wasn’t great. Some bits of action, a predictable arc, a sprinkling of mobs and visual effects… and that was about it. It felt like marketing in motion—something built more for buzz than substance. And judging by the viral clips flooding TikTok—popcorn flying, kids chanting “Chicken Jockey!” like it’s a sacred ritual, police being called into cinemas—...

What Gaming Teaches Us About Ourselves – and Our Children

A while ago, I came across a video from Barnardos Ireland, hosted at Google’s Dublin offices. It wasn’t breaking news, but it stayed with me. The session was about online safety – in particular, the world of gaming and how children experience it. The title was “Plugged In and Switched Off,” which, if I’m honest, felt a little too clever at first. But the conversations it held were anything but glib. What unfolded over the 90 minutes was a slow, layered picture of digital life for kids today. It made me stop and think – not just about children, but about us adults, and what we model. We’ve come so far, yet I’m not sure we’ve grown with the tech around us. Watching and Listening Barnardos has been running online safety workshops in schools across Ireland, with support from Google. The format is simple – go into schools, talk with kids (mainly aged 8 to 12), run workshops for parents in the evenings. In the past year alone, they’ve reached nearly 40,000 children. That’s no small thin...

When Should a Child Get Their First Smartphone?

Not long ago, The Journal posed a question: “What age should children get their first smartphone?” The replies came in fast—hundreds of them. Some were thoughtful, others defensive. A few were angry. It didn’t take long for the conversation to drift from the question itself to something deeper: trust, fear, control, and the pressure modern parents feel. I've been sitting with that discussion for a while. Not to add more heat, but to try and understand what’s really going on underneath. Because this isn’t just about smartphones. It’s about the kind of culture we’re shaping—for our children, and for ourselves. What Are We Modelling? In reading through the comments, what struck me most wasn’t just the worry parents had about their kids. It was how many of us, as adults, still wrestle with the same things. People spoke about screen time, about addiction, about the temptation to check messages behind the wheel. And I couldn’t help but think: If we’re still learning to handle these too...